It is usual for couples to have disagreements. No matter how much they could love each other, they came from different backgrounds, and they were raised in different environments.
Our parents transferred to us their values, and our teachers taught us what they knew. But most probably didn't teach about money and finances.
We all have had different experiences with money.
According to Money Magazine, 70% of married couples argue about money, more than sex, chores, time spent together, dinner, and snoring.
These things didn't start after the marriage, but even before the couples met.
This is why we should learn the 5 love languages of money.
Here they are:
Words of affirmation - what you send out to the universe will come back to you. Whatever you are saying about money affirms your true desires. So be careful about what you are saying about money in your daily life. Understand the power of words.
Quality time- You should spend some time at least once a month, preferably once a week, reviewing your finances and money goals. This is key to maintain a healthy relationship. When you know how much you make, where your money goes, and you both agree to how you spend, this not only strengthens your marriage but also solidifies it.
Act of Service- Make sure you have a clear plan for your financial goals. If you don’t plan, most likely you will end up somewhere far from where you wanted to be. Make sure that you and your partner are on the same page.
Physical Touch- You need to touch money and make it real. If you only pay with credit cards, you will lose touch with your money. Pay with cash from time to time, it will help you to be aware of it and spend it consciously. Money is real, make sure you guys touch money and realize how you spend it.
Gifts - Make sure to reward yourself when you achieve one of your money goals. This will renew, reset, and help you to restart in an abundance mode. Doing things as a couple for each other, when you guys reach certain goals, it a big key to keeping your marriage alive.
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